OUR STORY
AS TOLD BY DEBBIE.
we are a modern romance success story courtesy of COFFEE MEETS BAGEL.
yes, we met on a dating app.
i was in taiwan when i decided to download the app. i was jet-lagged + thought a fun
way to pass the time was to judge different prospects by swiping left + right.
i came upon calvin, and i guess i swiped right (because here we are!).
we matched + started texting immediately.
after playing the texting game of 'wait-a-couple-hours-before-texting-back' for a couple days,
calvin finally decided to ask me on a date.
at the time, he was living in fort worth + i was in dallas.
so like the gentleman he is, we decided to have our first date in dallas.
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sidenote: apparently the distance was important though because i found out later on that he was contemplating on standing me up (which i have yet to let him off the hook for)!
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since i had just traveled internationally alone when we matched (aka didn't need a man),
i decided to ask all the questions you aren't supposed to ask on the first date.
i had to make sure he checked off all my boxes!
our first date (or interview, as calvin would call it) lasted four hours. + to my surprise calvin kept up with all of my questions. as it turns out, he liked that it was more like an interview.
two and a half years later. we continued to fall more in love.
+ here we are!
AS TOLD BY CALVIN.
i was at a bar in dallas with a few of my friends and just across from me was the girl of my dreams………
or at least that’s how she wished our story began.
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we actually ended up matching on a dating app while debbie was traveling through parts of asia.
because of the time zone differences
we would only be able to catch each other for a few hours at a time.
eventually there was a lull in our conversation and
the app basically threatened to end our conversation.
so i sent my phone number on the off chance our conversation would continue.
before i knew it we were on our first date and i was getting interviewed.
she did NOT hold back!
she asked "what is wrong with you?"…. (since I wasn’t taken yet),
"how many kids do you want?",
"what kind of doctor do you want to be?”.
and these were asked pretty early on during the first date too!
but i guess i did well because we stayed
until the restaurant closed just chatting away.
and so….here we are!
i guess i got the job!
and i've been doing pretty good work so far, if i do say so myself.
almost 3 years in and i haven’t been fired yet.
i hear i’m getting promoted to husband soon!

OUR TIMELINE
JANUARY 9, 2019
matched on coffee meets bagel
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JANUARY 17, 2019
first date at meso maya
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COVID 2020
we quarantined together
+ became doctors!​
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JUNE 6, 2021
we got engaged
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NOVEMBER 5, 2022
we're getting married!

