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OUR STORY

AS TOLD BY DEBBIE.

we are a modern romance success story courtesy of COFFEE MEETS BAGEL.

yes, we met on a dating app.

i was in taiwan when i decided to download the app. i was jet-lagged + thought a fun

way to pass the time was to judge different prospects by swiping left + right.

i came upon calvin, and i guess i swiped right (because here we are!).

we matched + started texting immediately. 

after playing the texting game of 'wait-a-couple-hours-before-texting-back' for a couple days,

calvin finally decided to ask me on a date.

at the time, he was living in fort worth + i was in dallas.

so like the gentleman he is, we decided to have our first date in dallas.

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sidenote: apparently the distance was important though because i found out later on that he was contemplating on standing me up (which i have yet to let him off the hook for)! 

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since i had just traveled internationally alone when we matched (aka didn't need a man),

i decided to ask all the questions you aren't supposed to ask on the first date.

i had to make sure he checked off all my boxes!

our first date (or interview, as calvin would call it) lasted four hours. + to my surprise calvin kept up with all of my questions. as it turns out, he liked that it was more like an interview.

two and a half years later. we continued to fall more in love.

+ here we are!

AS TOLD BY CALVIN.

i was at a bar in dallas with a few of my friends and just across from me was the girl of my dreams………

or at least that’s how she wished our story began.

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we actually ended up matching on a dating app while debbie was traveling through parts of asia.

because of the time zone differences

we would only be able to catch each other for a few hours at a time. 

eventually there was a lull in our conversation and

the app basically threatened to end our conversation.

so i sent my phone number on the off chance our conversation would continue.

before i knew it we were on our first date and i was getting interviewed.

she did NOT hold back!

she asked "what is wrong with you?"…. (since I wasn’t taken yet),

"how many kids do you want?",

"what kind of doctor do you want to be?”.

and these were asked pretty early on during the first date too!

but i guess i did well because we stayed

until the restaurant closed just chatting away. 

 

and so….here we are!

i guess i got the job! 

and i've been doing pretty good work so far, if i do say so myself.

almost 3 years in and i haven’t been fired yet.

i hear i’m getting promoted to husband soon!

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OUR TIMELINE

JANUARY 9, 2019

matched on coffee meets bagel

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JANUARY 17, 2019

first date at meso maya

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COVID 2020

we quarantined together

+ became doctors!​

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JUNE 6, 2021

we got engaged

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NOVEMBER 5, 2022

we're getting married!

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